In fairy tales, Snow White and Cinderella meet with the dark side of their mother, embodied in the image of an evil stepmother or a cruel queen.

Young or feminine daughter can cause the mother to unconscious jealousy

Sometimes the best decision is a physical estrangement, departure – to another apartment, city or even to another country.

A mother is a foundation where a young female development is based. Therefore, no matter how hard you work on relationships with your ex, our own efforts get maximum of thirty percent of the result. Why? Because, relationships with the mother for a girl is our deepest karma. So deep that it’s even scary to look there. Therefore, if you think that you have a karmic man and a difficult karmic relationship with him, this is all nonsense compared to how much a woman’s karmic relationship is with her mother. And you just can’t take it off or “cut it off” from yourself.

The fact is that it is the mother who determines the energy of a woman at a subtle level. And if destructive energies come with the mother’s energy bridge, we’ll always have something “under-” in our life: a dumb man, a dumb attitude to ourselves, dislike of ourselves, rejection of ourselves, misunderstanding of our feminine nature. This happens because the mother is the first unconscious example of behavior and femininity in life. And it is her example that a girl begins to understand how is to be a woman.

Look at the moon in your astrological chart, which is also responsible for the mental state. No matter how much we can deny ourselves, it’s very important for us to learn that an invisible energy thread is always stretched between us and our mother. A stream of energy always goes through from mother to daughter.

There is an important point: it is not how the mother treats you, but it is important how you relate to her. If you give her a positive energy full of femininity through this energy thread, the same thing returns to you. But if you spread rot on your mother, do not accept her as your mother and woman – the same will return to you. Therefore, it is important for us to build the right “energy bridge” with our mother, and relations with her will begin to undergo changes. Not necessarily they will change on an external level, reflected in the words that the mother speaks to you, and how she behaves, but how you feel about her. And this is the most important thing.

If you accept her as a woman, who she is, what she likes to be, what she choses to be, if you respect her as your mother and treat her like a woman, who gave you life and everything, – you task is completed – your foundation is becoming strong. From now on, positive changes will begin to occur in your live… attitude to yourself as a woman will change.

You need to accept your mother the way she is, h there way she wanted to be. She gave you birth, fed you. And our task is to feel gratitude and respect for the mother only for the fact that she gave you birth.

For me dealing with my mother is the biggest challenge to overcome with my life. And my Moon is in conjunction with my Sun and Saturn in 11th house. I am still working on loving her.