When Relations Are Falling Apart

1. Resentment You constantly resent your partner but do not say anything, delaying that unpleasant moment when all the accumulated negative will break out. Resentment does not go anywhere, because if the factors that cause it do not disappear. the insult goes inside, and this causes stress and illness. Well, of course, ruining the relationship – slowly, but surely.

2. Disrespect If you and your partner have reached the point where you show mutual disrespect, it’s time to destroy your illusions. People can continue to live together without respect and awareness of each other’s values, which leads to absolute nonsense about the needs and desires of the partner. 3. Disdain It does not matter what motives caused contempt, whether it was a failed career, a change in appearance or something else. Partners should support each other in any situation. If you began to treat each other with contempt, you no longer receive from the relationship of warmth and no longer live with a friend, but with a cold being that condemns you. 4. The lies I’m talking about lying when you say to a person: “I love you”, without having any feelings. The truth will come out. Well, if you say to yourself: “We are happy, everything is fine with us,” when you feel that everything is already over for you, it is also a flight from reality.

3. Disdain It does not matter what motives caused contempt, whether it was a failed career, a change in appearance or something else. Partners should support each other in any situation. If you began to treat each other with contempt, you no longer receive from the relationship of warmth and no longer live with a friend, but with a cold being that condemns you. 4. The lies I’m talking about lying when you say to a person: “I love you”, without having any feelings. The truth will come out. Well, if you say to yourself: “We are happy, everything is fine with us,” when you feel that everything is already over for you, it is also a flight from reality.

4. The lies I’m talking about lying when you say to a person: “I love you”, without having any feelings. The truth will come out. Well, if you say to yourself: “We are happy, everything is fine with us,” when you feel that everything is already over for you, it is also a flight from reality.

5. Distrust If you do not trust your partner, there are reasons for this. Trust cannot be returned. 6. Swearing All the good things you can say about your partner can be said in public. And it’s better to leave everything bad for private conversations. To scold a person in public means to achieve only a negative reaction. In addition, if you criticize a partner in public or even just allow yourself unpleasant jokes in his address, it means that dissatisfaction grows inside, which has already begun to spill out. 7. Removal If you often look for a way to stay away from your partner and consciously try to avoid contact and intimacy, it’s time to move on. the emotional connection with the partner is gone and you “gently” let him know that it’s over.

6. Swearing All the good things you can say about your partner can be said in public. And it’s better to leave everything bad for private conversations. To scold a person in public means to achieve only a negative reaction. In addition, if you criticize a partner in public or even just allow yourself unpleasant jokes in his address, it means that dissatisfaction grows inside, which has already begun to spill out. 7. Removal If you often look for a way to stay away from your partner and consciously try to avoid contact and intimacy, it’s time to move on. the emotional connection with the partner is gone and you “gently” let him know that it’s over.

7. Removal If you often look for a way to stay away from your partner and consciously try to avoid contact and intimacy, it’s time to move on. the emotional connection with the partner is gone and you “gently” let him know that it’s over.

8. A requirement of proof of love It is very tempting to manage a person’s life in this way, and if you occasionally hear this phrase, then something went wrong. The only person who can change their feelings is the person himself, and others have nothing to do with it. how could you manipulate those you really love?

9. Public humiliation If your partner has humiliated you in society once, with a high probability he will do it again and again. Public humiliation of the partner speaks only of deep hatred towards himself, and no matter how much love you give to this person, it will not fix the situation without his firm desire to change and work with his self-esteem. And it’s hard not only to fix it but even to admit it. 10. Impossibility to end the conflict It begins as an endless struggle without reaching a consensus. There is a rule: never go to bed offended by each other. 11. The Subconscious If you unconsciously do things that harm your relationship, it’s your psyche that tells you what you really need. You can think of anything, but your actions speak of real desires better than all of your assurances and hopes. 12. Threats and emotional blackmail This is a clear sign of unhealthy relationships. Emotional blackmail is often presented as a strong love, but in

10. Impossibility to end the conflict It begins as an endless struggle without reaching a consensus. There is a rule: never go to bed offended by each other.

11. The Subconscious If you unconsciously do things that harm your relationship, it’s your psyche that tells you what you really need. You can think of anything, but your actions speak of real desires better than all of your assurances and hopes.

 

12. Threats and emotional blackmail This is a clear sign of unhealthy relationships. Emotional blackmail is often presented as a strong love, but in but in fact, it is фищге control. And control, in turn, is an abuse of feelings. You must escape from it.

13. Constant comparison and ratings Your partner compares you to those who look more attractive, earns more, is smarter and more interesting than you? This is one of the forms of humiliation. If someone thinks that the grass is greener on the other side, let him go there. People are unique creatures, albeit in many respects similar.

14. Indifference Why stay together if you do not care about each other?

15. Physical abuse There are no excuses, no explanations,

 

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